How to find the right girl for a relationship (part 1)

How to find yourself a right girl for a relationship.

There are several ways to discover your self a right lady for a relationship.

Sure, a great variety of men these days believe that it is nearly impossible to locate that dream lady for relationship. Q? How do you expect her to be that quality girl you dreamt of when you pick her today and slept with her today? Although there are exemption for that. Well nothing is impossible under the sun. With this tips Bello I believe the story will change anytime soon.

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. . . . . . . . . .Preparing Yourself. . . . . . . . . . 

1* Live a full life. Leading an interesting and fulfilling life will make you more attractive to potential mates. After all, would you want to date someone who seemingly has no interests, hobbies or friends? Become a
well-rounded person by spending time with friends, pursuing your own interests, and developing new hobbies. That way, when you finally meet the right girl, you'll have
plenty to offer her in return.

2* Be confident in yourself. You can't expect another person to love you until you love yourself. While everyone has their insecurities, letting them get the most of you will only make you unattractive to
potential mates. If you find you cannot overcome your insecurities, ask a friend to
point out your attributes. If that isn't effective, work on building your confidence with a counselor, therapist or a trusted member of the clergy.
Write in a positivity journal. keep track of your accomplishments, compliments people give you and any good thoughts
you have about yourself throughout the day. Negative thoughts about yourself
may not completely go away, but focusing more on the positives in your life will improve your overall feeling of
self-worth.

Encourage yourself. Making positive affirmations each day can help you become self-confident. For a few
moments each day, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself something encouraging, whether it's something you believe about yourself or something you would like to believe about yourself.

You can even write out your
affirmations and place them in
accessible locations, like inside your wallet or the welcome page of your mobile phone.

Forgive yourself. Meanwhile, remember that no person is perfect, and everyone
makes mistakes. Be sure and forgive yourself when you demonstrate imperfection.

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3* Avoid desperation. Neediness is a good way
to repel romantic partners. And those who are attracted to desperation are probably
not the best candidates for a healthy relationship. When you meet a girl, don't immediately drop the rest of your life to be
at her every beck and call, and don't bombard her with endless calls and texts.

When you try too hard to find the right girl, you also set your expectations much too high. Live a fulfilling life and
don't think so much about how you haven't met your soul mate. Love finds those who are not looking.

4* Determine the qualities you seek. You'll find it's easier to recognize a good potential
partner when you meet her if you've already determined the characteristics you seek in a
mate. Should she be religious, educated, funny, kind to animals or love kids? By
knowing what you're looking for, you'll be better equipped to recognize a good match
when you meet her.

5* Decide on your drop-dead deal breakers.
Everyone has qualities or behaviors that are deal breakers when it comes to
relationships, whether they realize it or not.
Spend some time thinking about characteristics that you absolutely do not want in your ideal partner. For many,
dishonesty is a deal breaker, while others may be opposed to cruelty, prejudice,
substance abuse or lack of ambition.

Knowing your deal breakers is just as important in determining compatibility as
knowing what attracts you, and can save you a lot of wasted time and effort in a dead-end relationship. Remain flexible.
Just because you've decided what qualities attract you, that doesn't mean your ideal mate will possess every one of them. In fact, people are often surprised to find love where they least expect it. Think of your attractions as a guideline, not a strict rule.

6* Don't judge a book by its cover. Looking for a mate with a particular physique, hair
color or facial features is one of the quickest ways to find Mrs Wrong. Even the best looks fade over time, and while
chemistry is important, if you have only physical chemistry in common, your relationship is doomed from the start.

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